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Joe Nichols's avatar

We write quite differently, which is not to say 'wrong' in either sense. I can appreciate that agony over rewriting and editing and process and then being content, sometimes joyous at the outcome. I tend to wing it, rip out a piece and throw it to the wind and see what catches. As I said, neither wrong, neither right, but that is what makes the world turn, and life worth living.

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I don't know if I should say this... as I might be encouraging your perfectionism (!!!) but I have been a professional editor/writer for 30 years and I have a tip for you. Of course, you may do this already. My tip is to print the final version on paper and reread. It's an old-school method but it has value :)

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Jeff Feldman, MSW, LSW's avatar

I have done that in the past. I also read a final draft aloud to my wife. Thanks for the tip!

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Yes reading aloud is another good practice :)

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Sarah Winters's avatar

Loved the reflection and your very sweet, kind words. I’m so happy we have been friends for so long. Love you, Yeffy!

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Annamaria Scaccia's avatar

I have a very similar writing process. Eerily so, maybe. I have tried to just write and let words flow, but I’ve come to realize that it’s better to lean in than resist.

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Jeff Feldman, MSW, LSW's avatar

Thanks Melanie! Most of my writing is longer form essays, but once in a while I'm moved to compose something shorter. Thanks for reading and commenting!

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